A few days ago, I had in-depth communication with my friend, His advice to me is: Before completing the path I am going to take next, do not easily reveal your path, plan, and learning partner, otherwise it is likely that I will be eliminated I used to be very averse to socializing, Apart from establishing a relationship with a certain group, At most, it's just participating in a structured space online. On the one hand, it stems from an introverted personality, On the other hand, I feel that the false "performance" flavor of most... is too strong, and this sense of falsehood makes me extremely uncomfortable. But these two years of experience have made me understand, Why is the gap between me and my fellow travelers widening. Even in Web3, Human relationships and worldly wisdom are still essential courses that cannot be avoided. Especially when grooming enters this' bear market alley ', The original strategy was clearly inadequate. There are only two paths in front of us: Either change oneself, Either be eliminated and leave the field. Recently, I have been added to several grooming communities, Based on personal observations, summarize several points: 1. Don't openly complain about some bloggers - they never disclose their heavy positions, but they always show hundreds of accounts when airdropping 2. There is no need to dig deep into the KOL's wallet address after each airdrop and then ask, 'Why can I get a top tier airdrop without much interaction?'. 3. In fact, starting from 2022, the weight of the social aspect (interpersonal relationships) has surpassed the simple operation of "posting". 4. Cases observed in the past six months: The Sign project rewards real people with over 200 followers with a value of 6000 UNFT. The Story project distributes high-quality rewards to over 800 followers (similar to Xiong Chain/Movement). The core proposition is always: 'How to enter the perspective of the project party'! 6. Complaining is meaningless, what should really be considered is: why can't I become someone in the circle?