Not being anxious is a precious quality My cousin refused me to lend him Bitcoin with no repayment deadline as a slightly supportive capital for blind dates. He said, 'He doesn't like to deceive people and thinks it's better to rely on himself.'; He also refused to participate in speculative games and chose a slower but more suitable path for him in the long run (I am completely convinced and support him, and I believe there will be greater success). His lack of comparison and anxiety, coupled with confidence and execution, make me have no doubt about his success and willing to invest more in him. Buffett once mentioned in a speech at the University of Florida in 1998: If you were asked to buy 10% of a classmate's future lifetime income after work, what kind of person would you choose? You won't choose the one with the highest intelligence, nor the one with the richest parents. Instead, you will choose the most generous, honest, and reliable people - those you are willing to work with, who possess leadership, empathy, and a spirit of sharing. He is able to think early on about what kind of life he wants to live based on his personality and put it into action, which may be completely consistent with his always smiling, optimistic and non anxious personality. When he returned to his hometown, there was always a row of children behind him to pester him - children could best recognize the real affinity. What are the essence or components of not being anxious? 1. Extremely confident So much so that in LV1, I knew I could carry the entire game in the later stages, so there was no reason to be anxious in LV1. If it only takes some time, then time is absolutely equal for everyone, what's there to be anxious about? There is also a difference between confidence and arrogance, such as path and execution. The path here requires more learning and some guidance from influential people to identify the correct path earlier. Execution requires stronger implementation ability, including team building, team management, and resolute thinking and implementation. 2. Ordinary mind Don't compare yourself to anyone, there will always be people who are luckier or stronger than you, even those who you believe are only temporarily stronger than you. Keep a calm mind and move forward. Just like how Lei Jun was chased by Dong Mingzhu for decades, cursing scammers and thieves, and publicly despised, Lei Jun still laughed and said that Dong was my senior, and claimed that "betting was the most foolish and regretful thing back then". It's not easy to have a calm mind. When I was in my teens, I was wearing a small and tattered shirt and went to a small bookstore next to school to read books for two days. When the female shop owner told me not to come and read if I didn't buy, I even told the shop owner, "If people see people reading in your store, more people will come to buy." The shop owner said, "I also want you to teach me how to be a boss." I only think she doesn't understand. This is the reason why she can only be a small shop owner. There is no internal friction, and she never has any lack of confidence because of her humble background. In the cryptocurrency industry, it's not easy to maintain a calm mindset. Who earns more, who is more impressive, and so on. But in fact, looking back a few years, there may have been times of embarrassment - as for some people who have achieved a much higher starting point than others due to family or other reasons, there is no need to worry. Every rich second and third generation has their own rich generation, and Li Ka shing's father was just a scholar who regretfully left in poverty and illness. Maintaining a calm mind and confidence are interconnected, do not engage in internal conflicts. My father said, 'If we're very poor, we'll go back and farm for better health.'. I think it makes sense when I think about it. Even if we can only farm, we can walk on the green grass, lie by the field ridge and bask in the sunshine, with only a small world - so, everything is not so much to think about, and at worst, we have happiness to have. 3. Be yourself The significance of effort lies in being oneself and being able to say no. But have you ever noticed that if the goal of your efforts is that, why not be yourself from now on. Being oneself means always doing things that make oneself feel comfortable - and this comfort can also be reversed. If you dislike someone, then don't be that person yourself. It's good to worship the strong, learn from their good qualities, ignore their shortcomings, and maintain a calm attitude. Everyone's halo is removed, and it's the same. No one is more noble, nor is anyone more humble.